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get real sales tip :: bridal shows

Thursday, February 3rd, 2011

It’s BRIDAL SHOW season! yup yup yup!

So here are two quick get real sales tips regarding working your bridal show. You’ll want to watch, because when I say “get real”, that is exactly what I mean.

Big thanks to #HusbandWonder who bought me a tripod for Christmas. A much needed gift.

Now if he can just purchase the “soft Barbra Streisand lens” for my camera…. my life would be complete.

ps Let me know what you think AND … what do you see that happens at bridal shows? This should be interesting….

happy selling!

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On the Twelfth Day of Selling…

Friday, December 24th, 2010

On the Twelfth Day of Selling my sales coach gave to me….

VISUALIZATION

I’ve always touted that I keep it “real”, trust me when I tell you that I absolutely believe in the power of positivity and visualization. I have to remind myself of this when life gets me down.

Back in college my girlfriends and I had a saying, “Power of Positive Thinking”. It was my friend, Janet Thomas who started it. Mind you, this was YEARS before the The Secret became a phenomenon. It was the simple concept of concentrating your thoughts on what you want to have happen, and it would become a reality.

If you’ll indulge me, here’s my crazy story that made me a believer. In 1991, I backpacked through Europe with a girlfriend of mine. We split up leaving Italy and she went off to Belgium to visit family and I went to Berlin, Germany. By myself; with my Frommer’s guide and limited knowledge of the German language. Remember my college friend, Janet, who I mentioned above? As luck would have it, she was also suppose to be in Berlin during the same time period with another group. I wasn’t sure of her travel schedule and had no way of contacting her to find out where she was staying (long before everyone had a cell phone).

So at my flat, I decided to make some calls around to local Youth Groups thinking that I may catch a break and find her. No such luck. Feeling a tad lonely, I concentrated on finding my friend. I even remember saying out loud, “Janet, if you are here in Berlin….FIND ME!”. I laughed at myself, of course. Seriously not making this up.

The next day, I was doing the tourist thing and visiting museums (I believe it was the Reichstag). There I was looking at historical photographs and suddenly…in a quiet crowd of people, I hear, “Saaaaaaundraaaaa!” There was Janet (in this instance, I did not feel shame for squealing and being the loud “American”). She was touring museums with her group and we literally bumped into each other at the same time, the same place. Power of Positive thinking? You betcha.

What does this mean for you? Well stop and concentrate on only positive thoughts about selling your services. Take a moment and pull out the Thank You cards you received from clients and re-read them. You are awesome. People love you. You are worth it; to charge what you charge to stay in business.

Visualize a great year.

Visualize knocking out challenges or problems that come your way like you would a baseball, right out of the park (and out of your life).

Visualize good health and energy.

Visualize standing tall and strong and not be discouraged by competitors.

And when you start to feel down, then come back and read this post. Or anything else that gives you a kick in the rear.

Now get out there and DO IT! Let’s make 2011 one to remember….

Happy Selling!

photo: The Zen of Open Data Where ELSE would I get a photo like this?

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On the Eleventh Day of Selling…

Thursday, December 23rd, 2010

On the Eleventh Day of Selling my sales coach gave to me….

TREATS

You read that right. Go treat yourself. Do something that you have been putting off. Get a massage. Buy yourself that awesome pair of shoes that you’ve been wanting. Get a custom ShootSac so you look spiffy on shoots. Buy a new suit to wear at your weddings. Shell out the bucks for a gym membership. Get a new haircut.

I like to buy something that makes me feel good and wear them to upcoming sales consults!

Do something to treat yourself for efforts in 2010. Pampering yourself is a great way to prepare yourself for the upcoming year.

It will be a little pep in your step. And let’s face it, you’ve been working hard these past ten days (well all year).

Happy Selling!

photo: marie claire

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On the First Day of Selling…

Monday, December 13th, 2010

On the First Day of Selling my sales coach gave to me….     (I’m super corny)

CLEANLINESS

That’s right. Get up off your butt and clean your office/workspace, shop. Not just superficial cleaning either. Get out the huge trash can (that sits outside) and go through everything. If you don’t have time to file all the papers get a huge plastic bin and set the papers inside, you will finish this before April 15, 2011 (er, tax time). For now, we’ll put a pin in it.

Get out the Pledge and Windex. Throw away anything you haven’t touched in years. Take your files and scan them into .pdf’s for filing purposes. Throw it out! Purge!

It’s probably the “planner” in me, but I cannot “think” in dust, clutter or a mess. I cannot pretend to be open minded and upbeat when clutter and a mess is all around me. It gets me down. So this winter (because I am so behind) I have been cleaning like a pregnant, nesting woman (um, not preggers). So I can “think” again.

Trust me, before you can move on to another wedding season, you must first catch up and clean up. This is your foundation for clarity.

Happy Selling!

ps Found the photo on the web. It’s Jamie’s Desk, whoever that is.

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are you fearless?

Wednesday, October 6th, 2010

My Dad passed away 14 months ago. It seems like a lifetime and like it was yesterday. Thankfully he was at my home (with my family).

I’ve never seen anyone die before. It’s quite a surreal experience. His last night I stayed up administering morphine so he wouldn’t be in pain. He was unable to communicate with us the last 48 hours, so this was of great concern to me.

No one prepared me for the sounds a body makes before it expires. Well that’s not true, the hospice nurse left a pamphlet which I didn’t crack open until around 2am. Leave it to me to not read directions on anything.

Why do I talk about this (depressing) subject? Because it altered my life, forever. Not just the fact of losing a parent, but the whole experience.

See, I used to be afraid of dying. I would pray when I would travel in an airplane to please land safe and protect all of us in the plane. Now I pray: “land safe or go quickly”.

Because my eye opening experience taught me there are no certainties in life. When you stop and really realize that, it’s freeing.

What’s this got to do with sales talk? Everything. Be fearless in your selling. Do not fear rejection, lack of acceptance, your ability, or (fill in the blank).

Be fearless with your colleagues, clients, family, friends…. Be free of negativity, doubt, troublesome people…..

Take the chance…….

Happy Selling!
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